Always telling the truth is the most important consideration in any relationship between people. Use specific reasons and examples to support your answer.
I believe that sincerity is not always a good idea while associating with people. It’s clear to me, that sometimes honesty doesn’t work in a way we expect. Therefore, people should avoid telling the truth right away, because in lots of situations uprightness can cause many troubles. Firstly, by telling the truth you can disrespect people’s privacy, moreover in lots of consequences it can be hurtful and stress them out. In fact, people’s privacy, which embraces their own opinions and thoughts, certainly can differ from other’s perspectives. Any information about feelings and knowledge people have gained is generates from their perspective, and how they observe that very issues in their point of view. The Spanish writer J. Marias illustrated this topic very carefully, he wrote ”Listening is the most dangerous thing of all, it means knowing, finding out about something and knowing what’s going on, our ears don’t have lids that can instinctively close against the words uttered, they can’t hide from what they sense they’re about to hear, it’s always too late.” In this novel learning the truth for the main character brought betrayal and confession, conflicts with his father and spouse as well, which came up with thoughts of unworthiness, sorrow and even regret about his marriage. That’s how sincerity ruins certain opinions and relationships forever. Moreover, honesty can be the cause of emotional breakdowns and heartbreaks for people you care about. This is common in situations of dealing with death and grieve. For example, in most cases mothers prefer not to tell their children about the loss of their father or a sibling or a family member. Because in most cases kids’ mind is not ready to handle that kind of information and figure it out normally. To sum up we can state, that truth is not always the optimum choice. Before that people should consider if the truth is much important to cost others’ life and feelings. Practically you can bring problems and issues to your loved ones, that’s why this will take too much time and energy for them to heal and process.
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